Lack of passion. Approximately 80% of the population is anasexual
Lack of passion. About 80% of the population is anasexual…
About 80 percent of the population is anasexual, that is, those for whom sexual taste does not exist.
A behavior that is difficult to deduce at first glance.
They may have a partner, but they do not love him.
They have no passion, and especially no sexual preference.
Example.
A person wants to buy a computer.
He will probably look at the price and on the spot choose the one he likes best.
But a year later the computer itself will be identical to when it was bought.
There are no updates to the operating system, the desktop wallpaper has never been changed.
It just surfed the Internet and sent emails.
Anasexuals are the same.
They need a partner because it is economically and socially beneficial, so they choose one.
A year later observing the relationship they do the same things the same way (in bed and otherwise) with absolute repetitiveness.
Limited to a minimal set of practices, completely analogous to someone who bought a computer and only uses it to write emails.
Many men desire women (or vice versa).
But they don’t like women, they don’t love them.
They find nothing exciting about women per se except that they desire them, and that some excite them more than some others.
These men desire women, but they do not love them.
Other men (or vice versa) love sex.
Because they love sex and love the pleasure they get from a woman, it is possible to think that they love women.
Instead, they just love sex.
For very many (or most) people, having (a) partner is just a matter of possession.
Like those who need a computer to surf the Internet.
Lack of passion. Often you see a beautiful person….
Another point of confusion as to why anasexuality often goes unnoticed is that essentially erotic language is part of everyday speech.
Not only in verbal terms, but especially in terms of clothing and body care.
A beautiful person is often seen.
But the fact that she is considered very attractive simply makes her someone who speaks the same language.
In fact, seeing a beautiful (or handsome) person wearing clothing that sends erotic signals, one is inclined to think that he (she) is not an anasexual.
On the contrary, many anasexuals habitually dress more provocatively than usual.
Since they do not perceive the effects of the signal they are sending, they are not adept at modulating its intensity.
Normally, people who have sexual preferences notice each other very little.
Because they perceive erotic signals very clearly and intensely, they are unlikely to show up dressed as a mini-crotch or an exhibitionist yokel.
A “silent” language
If a person finds a person’s wrists sensual, he is unlikely to use dizzying necklines.
The wrist is more than enough of a signal in his language.
In general, those who can hear us very well speak softly, which makes them silent to those who are deaf instead.
This is why some anasexuals find refuge in the gay/lesbian world, only because they immediately fail in the heterosexual world.
In fact, our society assumes that a person is “by default” attracted to the opposite sex.
But these people first experience that they are not.
And then they throw themselves into the gay world as soon as they discover that they are not heterosexual.
This is a very common situation in the lesbian world.
In fact, many anasexual women become anasexual and later discover that they are not physically attracted to women either.
The gay world is indeed full of anasexuals.
They know they are not heterosexual because they lack passion.
So they choose to be part of that environment and usually end up in the “category” of cross-dressers.
Similar to deaf screamers, they scream all kinds of erotic signals at maximum volume and without any particular target.
Nor any particular motive.
Since they do not perceive the intensity, they cannot understand the exaggeration.
In fact, those with sexual preferences need much less to receive an erotic signal.
It is certainly not necessary to reach that level.
Just like two people who can hear each other do not need to shout.
